With a LOT OF ADVICE You get from Friends / Co workers etc.... you must take every thing and think... Are they trying to truly HELP ME? or do they have to something to gain from this...
NOW assume your friend has your best interest... and I think she does.... for example you are BIG.. and SO am I so I think I understand.... IF YOU HAD A BIG SCAR ON YOUR FACE.. its there no matter what... you can put your head down and TRY to cover your face with your hair... or.... you can accept it and do your hair however you want....
SO your arms are your arms... you cannot change that.... you might as well embrace them... you ate the cheeseburgers that put them there... LOVE YOURSELF and your body... and YES when you have CONFIDENCE your audience will follow you...
For example.. if you go out there in a mini skirt with your ass out.. and you LOVE IT AND WORK IT AND OWN IT.. the audience will ride the train with you but if you go out t here and your self cautious and constantly trying to pull your shirt town and cover yourself.. then they will feel uncomfortable with you and laugh at you.....
ALWAYS REMEMBER you give other people the CONTROL.... like in this video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yt6oPfuwpa0
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
ok i have very bad bat wings( flabby upper arms) i was 475 pounds i am down to 411 now ...my well not drag mom but friend says since i am big people will not care if they show during a show is she telling the truth or setting me up to get laughed at?
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