Dear Misty,
I moved to LA and still have some of those "midwest values" in me. I am dating a truly nice guy who is sweet, hard working and we have talked about the big M. My parents and friends like him. I can see myself having kids with this man. There is another guy that is nice in a different way. My family would do a backgroud check just by the looks of him. He should not be trusted with a house plant much less kids, he drinks too much...etc. I am in my 20's and sometimes want to go out with this guy rather than watch dvds with my boyfriend! What do I do? I am not saying I want to sleep with this guy, I am not saying I don't want either! Confused and feed up with Netflix!
Dear wanting her cake and eating it too.
I think that your heart already knows the answer to your de lima. You basically told me in your letter to me what you think is right. However if you need some sausy Drag Queen advice. Here goes: Guy #2 is obviously not Mr Right, but mearly Mr Right Now. If you cannot trust him with a plant let alone children, this is NOT the man you should spend the rest of your life with, grow old with, and /or raise a family with. So, If you are attracted to him... and before you get engaged to Guy #1, you should make sure you have contraceptives in order and then Sew your wild oats with this man. Do it dirty and do it kinky and do it all night long. Get him out of your system and then you will be ready to plan a beautiful future with Mr Right without distractions...."what if's etc...." Now when you start getting tired of Netflix again, get spontaneous with your man, and switch it up. Blind fold him, or get a motel room (yes with your husband/fiance) a change of atmosphere could be all you need to turn your bedroom up a notch. We all have a hidden animal inside of us, you just have to learn how to get him to let his barriers down and let loose. XOXO Misty Eyez
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