Dear Misty, once a person with mustache, boobs, long hair and nail tips was politely greeted by my coworker with "Here is your order, Ma'am." He responded, "I'm not a ma'am, I'm a sir." Is there a protocol for classifying gender in the drag queen world?

OH GOD.... thats tough... Italian women and other ethnic backgrounds sometimes get mustaches etc... BUT if he had Man boobs im sure it has happend before ... and he was probably more embarassed than offended.... BUT As a RULE if they have makeup on and look fem like a girl.. ID SAY GIRL..... but I guess if your just not sure dont say anything... say Here is your order...

(BTW if he is trans man... and starting to take hormones to grow mustach etc but still has breast etc... dont beat yourself up... you followed your minds eye... I mean HE followed his minds eye etc.)

PLEASE shorten your question 2the space allowed but Ask Anything from Mild 2 Wild (Table Talk or Deep Probing Questions)