Dear Misty, how would you calmly respond to a best friend blowing off a night with you for someone else last minute? My best friend has done this to me several times throughout the years. I love her to death but I feel like her prioities are messed up.

YES I agree... that hurts...

AND IN REALITY she is a CUNT... BUT put yourself in her shoes....

NOW Lets close your eyez and THINK..... WHAT IF YOU had plans to do something regular (like a movie/hang out etc --- NOT something Major like tickets to a concert etc) with your BEST FRIEND.. and then you had a fleeting opportunity to do something REALLY FUN with someone you had a CRUSH ON..... or with someone that you NEED to network with etc...

WOULD YOU Cancel the opportunity... or call your BFF and assume she will understand because something BIG or POSSIBLY BIG came up???

I feel that your BFF doesnt realize that she is HURTING YOU because your her BFF and you should understand..

Does that help?

xoxo Misty

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