How is a polite way to tell a straight man or a lesbian your a man? I alway get hit on and i always just say im a dude and walk away because im scared. I'm sure there is a better way to go about it.

WELL... I think you would be surprised at how many STR8 men KNOW.... the guys that WANT THAT... know what to LOOK FOR and FIND IT .... I guess I would just say something like..... "your really cute.... Have you ever dated a T-GURL?" that way your not TELLING them you are one per say... but your taking the temperature... and if they get RUDE and SAY NO! then you can say then WHY are you talking to me.. and walk away....

for the Lesbians.. you can just say thank you.. IM flattered but im not a lesbian.... and if you are a lesbian... you can do the same thing for the guy.... Have you ever dated a TGIRL?

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