Im a 23yo gay male & ive been hooking up 2feel wanted/needed. when its over i feel used & trashy, I wanna serious relionship but i feel im not cute enough or good enough. I hear Im too overweight or dont have a diploma. can u please give me advise~Kyle

I have been wondering how to answer this question for some time now... rolling around all the possibilities in my mind....

This VLOG Is not an actual DIRECT Reply to this question but I think it works... BUT let me say that IT is NORMAL for us to HOOK UP for our self esteem... so that we feel wanted but you are RIGHT that is a DOUBLE EDGED SWORD... it ends up making you feel worse, and dirty. That and if you are LOOKING for a serious Relationship and you start to date someone you might settle down with... and then he starts to find out that you have Slept with half that town... WELL that's a BIG TURN OFF....
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