Dear Misty,my partner10 yrs died in Feb,Due to very fast liver cancer .During our relationship i may have gone out en femme one or twice a yr cuz its in my blood and he loved me in or out of drag .He supported me 100% Is it too early for me to go clubbing

Death is probably one of the WORST things we have to deal with as humans, and everyone deals with it in a different way, and that way differs from person to person. Dont let anyone tell you that the way you are grieving is wrong. HOWEVER.... I share my advice in this VLOG but I also want to remind you that a lot of times we choose to carry GUILT around with us for things that we cannot control, and that are not our fault. You know the coulda woulda and shoulda's

The only thing you can do now is live your like as if you think he would want you to.. and MOST IMPORTANTLY I think that he would want you to be happy :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bh9mdvM30hU&list=UUqyYbeP1zn8x7P2oQwdEj1Q&index=1&feature=plcp

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