hey misty i broke up with my best friend because the boys at school are bullying him and calling him a fag and i was standing with him every time they would say it and fight for for him BUT when they said to me im a fag he lifted me alone what do u think

I think your WEAK and a miserable person.....

IM IMPRESSED that you stand up for your "BEST FRIEND" but im even more shocked that the second someone makes fun of you.. you run scared...??? WTF

one think you might not realize is (or at least what it sounds like to me) is that your "Former" Best Friend gets made fun of EVERY DAY.. and all the time... and I know what its like to, or at least it was also my response to IGNORE IT and act like it wasn't happening.... You can make fun of me .. I DONT CARE ... you cant HURT ME.... which is what provided you the courage to be STRONG and stand up for him... but what you are doing is now expecting him to change his survival mode when it comes to violence ... and punishing him for it when im sure that he has no idea what happened. FOR in his mind and yours... YOU KNOW this is his approach....and or reaction.. and yet you are shocked.

and TO ME and the rest of the world its going to look like you can be friends with a looser that people make fun of .. but once they start to make fun of you.. you cannot handle it and dump t he friend that makes you appear to be a looser as well

I think you need to LOOK into your relationship and SEE if there was anything VALID to base your relationship on.. and if there was .. I hope you can SUCK IT UP and learn to forgive your FRIEND who doesn't have as much of a backbone as you.. and learn to love him for the strengths that he DOES have....

PLEASE shorten your question 2the space allowed but Ask Anything from Mild 2 Wild (Table Talk or Deep Probing Questions)