Dear Misty,
Not too long ago I got dumped by my ex. He treated me like the center of his world when we were together, but when he walked away it was over. No more calls, emails nothing. He started dating someone else immediately. Lately, we have seen each other out and about. He is getting overly friendly & there is some flirting back and forth. Do you think that maybe he just made a mistake? I am no fool and I am on alert but maybe we can "fix" it. Please help Im Confused.
Dear Confused,
NO - Do NOT Do it... You need to realize that your relationship ended for a reason. The only way to re-kindle a relationship gone bad is to address the situation that caused the break up and to fix it. To me it sounds like he just found someone better and dumped you for an upgrade. It is natural to flirt in passing for you both shared something intimate, and more often than not, our memories are either Better or Worse than the actual reality of what happened. You know this reminds me of a biblical scripture: Proverbs 26:11 As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly. (New International Version) My advice is to stay far away, unless the sex was amazing. But only hook up if you are able to remain emotionally un-attached for he will break your heart again.
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