Why did you do a video telling everyone you broke up?

HONESTLY: There are SO MANY REASONS I dont know where to start???

1. We had a Very public relationship - in that A LOT of people knew we were TOGETHER. However the Trials and tribulations of our Relationship were VERY PRIVATE

2. I did it because I am a VERY PRIVATE PERSON - and I felt it would help eliminate EVERYONE walking up to me and saying SORRY... or IS IT TRUE... or I JUST HEARD... IF I said it myself... then its not gossip.

3. I truly believe in ETERNAL LOVE and RELATIONSHIPS and I wanted to show its OK TO HAVE LOVED, and to have lost. But I wanted to show that WE TRIED

4. In the past I started to date someone and HE FREAKED OUT. Said that EVERYONE in FLORIDA LOVED ME, and if we ever broke up that he would have to move out of state to survive. - BUT I to show that there was NO NEED to trash or badtalk him

5. Its natural for your friends to take your side - and to BE RUDE to your EX, but I wanted to send a message that I DONT HATE HIM, and its ok for my friends to be his friend and that we are still friends.

6. I also wanted to eliminate the possibility of one of us being out and flirting with someone else.... and I do not want our friends to Come running to the other... OH I think your being cheated on.

7. I guess also I DIDNT WANT TO TELL EVERYONE, and I couldnt think of another way other than actually going up and being like OH>.. YEAH WE BROKE UP

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What's your favorite color?

BLUE!!! (Cobalt for a specific shade but I LOVE BLUE) :)

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do u think its ok for me to use my real hair and not wigs. my hair is short and i dye it to match what i have on...once i start doing shows i figg i chould spray it diff shades when i do diff numbers? (i have been really wanting to ask you something):O)

im in a serious relationship but im constantly having drama with my bfs past, its both new things that i find out about and just getting over things i already know. is this normal and worth trying to work through or too much to deal with?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNOXe7qaWtQ

The Above is my VLOG Respose, BUT I also wanted to address your Situation in writing, after I taped the video. I truly do understand your frustration.... I really took my time in my VLOG but I want to re iterate that If your relationship is indeed serious - I TRULY HOPE that you found "THE DRAMA" out from his mouth, especially if its MAJOR DRAMA. Is he in denial? Does your boyfriend try to hide from his past? does he shutter and clam up every-time you bring up the fact that he used to needlepoint? OR? if the topic comes up... does he share his experiences with you and others? So that just in case others have needlepoint in their past, they can see that its NOT Such a bad thing, and you can over come from it ? (TRUST ME YOU WANT THE LATTER - if its DEEPLY SUPPRESSED that means he hasn't delt with or healed from his experience)

Also be mature enough to realize that people change. Just because he used to be a klepto in the 4th grade doesn't mean he steals now.

if you TRULY LOVE this man - You will be able to overlook any blemish in his past. But if it is INDEED IN THE PAST...NOTHING is that bad.... I was being silly in the video about snorting the glue, but If he used to snort Glue, and he says he stopped but you keep catching him in the act , or you keep finding glue around his nose. Then it is NOT in his past. And that is a different situation.

But even then if you are running for PRES and skeletons come up to haunt you. If you LOVE HIM, and he is HONEST WITH YOU then together the two of you can work it out, and deal with it, and possibly grow even closer through this ordeal.

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Would you pick Gay?

I have often heard Gay people say... they would NOT HAVE CHOSEN TO BE GAY.... but my question is... if you could go back in time and take a PILL that would genetically make you Str8... Would you choose to be STR8? or would you still choose to be Gay?

OOPS I answered this the other day... but I obviously forgot to answer you here... (Please enjoy this was a PLEASURE to do - I love the DEEP PROBING Ask Misty's :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oz-t7KmmFsE

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Do you dress up just to do these videos?

Here you go babe :) Im sorry I forgot to post your reply....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7LAWjaODkI

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You give such great advice, how did you get started in doing videos

Im not a DR, but I do have a BIG HEART, and I truly do care. and I explain it in the VLOG below but I will also say that I think its easy for me to give advice because Im the Oldest in my family and I was raised giving advice LOL but I have also been all around the spectrum and truly see and understand both sides of most equasions. Ive been a missionary, youth minister, extremely right wing christian, and now im a drag queen. I understand the male perspective and the female perspective :)

Im glad your enjoying it :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7LAWjaODkI

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