Ive experienced alot of negativity in the gay scene and its disappointing because i just turned 21, now thinking that this is all i have to look forward to. In such a uppity and cliquish atmosphere, how can i find a mate or at least friend?

Awww Sweetheart.... any change is SCARY at first... if you move to a new town or come out to a new community it can be tough.... But any neighborhood can be scary on the outside looking in but when your from that community its HOME....

SO I feel I should tell you that it will get better, however your right there will always be shallow superficial queens in our community... but like in the video I want to tell you that the gay community is also full of BEAUTIFUL and AMAZING PEOPLE as well.... (SO DONT RUSH from relationship to relationship ... wait for the right and amazing guys)
xoxoxo

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