Awww Sweetheart.... any change is SCARY at first... if you move to a new town or come out to a new community it can be tough.... But any neighborhood can be scary on the outside looking in but when your from that community its HOME....
SO I feel I should tell you that it will get better, however your right there will always be shallow superficial queens in our community... but like in the video I want to tell you that the gay community is also full of BEAUTIFUL and AMAZING PEOPLE as well.... (SO DONT RUSH from relationship to relationship ... wait for the right and amazing guys)
xoxoxo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TKwppyH6P28
Friday, September 30, 2011
Ive experienced alot of negativity in the gay scene and its disappointing because i just turned 21, now thinking that this is all i have to look forward to. In such a uppity and cliquish atmosphere, how can i find a mate or at least friend?
Thursday, September 29, 2011
How does a queen file taxes for nightclub earnings and tips?
IM not an accountant but.... I know its via 1099 and you will declare your income as an independent contractor.
hi misty, I have aspirations of becoming a show host but every time i get the mic im unsure of what to say, I am a regular performer and i love it but do you have any advice for me?
Here are the best pointers I could quickly think of...... :)
http://youtu.be/NU-gK0JtSYQ
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
what do you think about straight drag queens ? i am straight and have worked as a drag queen for quite a few years http://www.facebook.com/album.php?id=174773345908019&aid=59953 my pictures , i confuse myself sometimes , i dont know what to do really .x
I answered a very simular question tonight.. and I had a feeling there might be more here that I can share this with :) here are my thoughts ;)
http://t.co/wsfvOKNM
Im a str8 male. I have a friend who does female impersonation. One night he dared me to get dressed up in drag and I agreed. I thought I would not like it but I had a blast. My friend has since moved away. Id like to try this again, could you help?
IM not sure how I can help... but I answered a Vlog about a simular topic...and if you want help by knowing my thoughts on Str8s doing drag here they are.... and I think the desire to play DRESS UP Is innate in all of us... That is why Halloween is SO POPULAR you can be anything you want ... EVEN the opposite sex....
http://youtu.be/t9QjBDV_WWw
Misty i am a closeted Bi sexual and i really want to start doing drag. Im a theater student 20 and i can sing/dance/act/ & do makeup! im a really creative human being and i kno ide be amazing! but i like living my life as a straight man! im so conflict!
I think the desire to play DRESS UP Is innate in all of us... That is why Halloween is SO POPULAR you can be anything you want ... EVEN the opposite sex....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QjBDV_WWw
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Misty-Im bi. I really like my chick friend, that ive known scince last year. Were sophmores now, and were pretty close:) we are verrry diffrent. im the rebel.shes the christian. I really like her but im sure shell never like me that way.how do I move on?
I do not think that your case is hopeless :) Here is why
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t0W_BQ5icRE
have you ever had explosive diarrhea before an performance?
Before going to work... and while getting ready... YES... but thank GOD not while I was about to go on stage.....
What fall TV show are you most excited about?
GOSH... its a TOSS UP between - The Playboy Club -
and - Pan Am -
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Dear misty, I love ur videos I am a somewhat new drag queen been doing it for about 3 years my question is what's the best way to hide chest hair, it's like no matter how close I shave I still see the black hairs I'm kinda hairy and I shave as good as I c
HEY GIRL... Hope this Video Helps :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPDjYWrv1Ts
i have a question, and I don't mean to offend you in any way, I am a huge fan! Are you a male, female, or transgender? Sorry, again don't mean to offend you, i don't know the rules of being a drag queen so yeah... Your makeup is always gorgeous
NO OFFENSE... I cannot expect everyone to know everything LOL :)
99% of drag queens are MEN dressed as Women... (I am a man... who entertains as a woman) (RARELY will you see a FAUX Drag which is a WOMAN doing drag)
Did that answer your question?
Friday, September 23, 2011
Dear Misty, I am a straght female but I love watching lesbain porn. I hide it from my boyfriend (although, I think he would be more then fine with it lol) Does this mean anything? Please help, and as always, stay fablous.
I understand your conflict but I think your more normal than you think :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MtH7CsNAQFs&feature=channel_video_title
My older brother is straight, married, and has a kid, but he likes to dress in drag sometimes. I'm not sure if he'd want to do this, but is it okay for straight men perform in drag?
IT is very common for Str8 Men to CROSS DRESS (in fact that is the basic definition of cross dresser - a str8 man who gets turned on by panties etc.... and dresses in private) Its the gays that do it on stage... however know several STR8 Drag queens.... and I dont see anything wrong with this :)
BUT IT woudl take big balls to leave the house and to get onto that stage......
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
I'm a male gender bender that dress in alternative fashion and I live in a country in which I can't go out without people trying to physically hurt me or at least verbaly assault me/stare crazy. I feel as I have no future here,I just don't know what to d
HONEY ... NOTHING is worth risking your life for.... THINK... SAFETY FIRST.... click for the rest of my thoughts ;)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwZy4bwTqDk
Friday, September 16, 2011
what did you do to expirment when you werent sure you wanted to drag or not
Halloween.... 3 years in a Row
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
I watch almost every Misty Minute, have supported you since I have moved to Florida, and you have helped so many people that I feel that I'd like to ask you (not looking for advice, but if you can answer:) How do you deal with close loses (AKA deaths)?
This is a HORRIBLE Question.... and yet its a question that EVERYONE of us has to deal with from time to time.... Dealing with death is a part of dealing with LIFE... but I realize that doesn't make it any less traumatic or any easier to deal with ... the only comfort that I have for you is that WE ALL have to deal with this and that is one of the horrible things that make us human.
The other day when doing a 9-11 tribute I mentioned that WE ALL REMEMBER where we were that HORRIBLE DISASTER struck our country... however the one good thing that I learned from that experience is that WE as HUMANS have the POWER to bounce back and we have the power to OVER COME tragedy and SURVIVE. I am truly sorry for your loss... :(
http://youtu.be/UEY1-HRZwAo
Hi Misty! I'm 21 yo and I've been studying finance for 4 years now. I'm about to have my degree but I hate it & I don't want to work in a bank or anything like that. I love fashion & make up. They're my passions. I don't know what to do after this year.
Hey girl... I basically say it all in the VLOG... but I suggest graduating from one school and going to another..... Check it out :)
http://youtu.be/n0re7AB6hG4
What's your favorite app on your mobile phone?
Tetris... (is that an app?) or just a downloaded game :)
Sunday, September 11, 2011
My exbf of 3 years told me he still loves me. I have a long distance bf now we've been dating for 6 months. I love him now but sometimes we go a month without seeing each other. And i hate that. :( I still love my ex too and im torn apart on what to do.
I think you need to REALLY RE-EVALUATE why you broke up.... sometimes we start to miss things that are Familiar... but in reality we are just lonely and I guess it really depends on why you broke up... remember a Zebra cannot change its stripes... If you broke up because he was an ASS HOLE... he's probably STILL AN ASS HOLE....
Proverbs 26:11 As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his foolishness.
and here is a SIMULAR VLOG I have done in the past :) XOXO
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RMxY1WI3VwA
Friday, September 9, 2011
Dear Misty, I turn 18 in a month and I work as a makeup artist. MAC wants me to work for them when I am 18, they love everything about me, but I am so scared to do the makeup audition. I also get scared that maybe sometimes my look is a bit too extreme
THE WORST thing you can do is let your FEARS get in the way of your DREAMS. and its NORMAL to be Fearful or Nervous of what we most want..... the fear of WHAT IF... WHAT IF IT WORKS OUT... WHAT IF IT DOESNT.... WHAT IF????
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gajU6MTwwRk
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
hey gurl it's Nat again, i think i'm falling for a real close friend but am afraid telling him how i feel will make things weird between us if he doesn't feel the same about me. Should I bite the bullet & tell him anyway?
I think that MOST OFTEN as humans we are attracted to others for whatever reason and if something romantic doesn't become of it... many times we become friends with them.... so I think its common that the sub-line of many friendships is a crush on one end or the other. (unless you share something in common like a job hobby etc) but click here for my answer to your question :) XOXO
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uvIuAeU6_s
Gurrrrrl, do you know of any Queens who're on the darker/goth-ier side of drag? Like Elvira, and darker edgy make up, fake blood, things of that nature?
I cannot think of a specific example right now.... but YES I HAVE SEEN this many times and I THINK ITS COOL... it might be harder to only find appropriate songs of this nature to keep this look / theme for your personal theme but YES... Entertainment comes in all shapes and sizes and YES I SO GO and FREAK THE KIDS OUT :)
has you make-up ever failed? like you have been on stage and your eyebrows started coming up or something or a general wardrobe malfunction if so what have you done or do to fix it?
I also just remembered once I was Waiting tables as a boy... and had shaved my brows off for a pageant, and drew them on.. and I forgot and was so weeded / busy and stressed and I accidentally wiped one of my brows off with the back of my hand and I didn't bring a pencil to work. I WAS MORTIFIED.... and the worst part is I didnt realize it till my shift was almost over and I have no idea how long it had been like that ... NOBODY said anything about it to me. :(
But click here for the rest of what I have to say about mishaps
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2w-9qjA4Xs
HOW DO I FLIRT WITH GUYS AND HOW DO I GET NUMBERS FROM THEM BECAUSE IM GOING TO A PINK PROM FOR GAYS BI LES WHAT SHOULD I DO LOVE SKYEYARA!!!!
GIRL... IF I KNEW THAT.... I wouldnt be single LOL.... BUT my advice and I have been taking this myself... is DONT BE SO AFRAID OF REJECTION... NO IS NO... and that is the worst thing that can happen.... and most gays are also afraid of rejection and if your both waititng around to be asked... then thats a LOT OF WAITING...
JUST say HEY whats up.... I have this prom thing... would you like to be my date? if they say NO??? FUCKEM...... and ask someone else ;)
(BUT if your SUPER afraid of rejection its easier to ask them on facebook than face too face LOL)
Who's the best teacher you ever had?
Mrs Beck - She was 8th Grade English - and SHE WAS REALLY HARD ON ME .. and SHE WAS A BITCH.... and She forced me to LEARN... and afterwards i realized WOW... SHE WAS THE BEST TEACHER EVER!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Misty: i am a woman & i am engaged to a wonderful man but i have a secert... i fantasize about sexual acts with women. i cant picture bein in a relationship wit one but i have always wanted 2 try sexual things wit them... does this make me bi? advice?
HONEY... I understand your concern.. and I can see why you would be torn up by the thoughts and desires... but you are more normal than you think... here is my VLOG :) XOXO
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0WMg55uyr_U
what do you think of Carmen's form of "drag" do you think it's to "strip so people will pay me" for a lack of performance talent? Also what's your thoughts on her comments regarding her beauty (it doesn't last very long though).
I am TRULY USED to that type of performance living in Florida... EVERY major city Jacksonville, Orlando etc... all have clubs where there are TS's that just come out and show off their naked bodies...
I have heard many reviews from audiences that their only talent is in their Plastic Surgeon... AND that it becomes a boring show when every girl comes out and gets naked.....
I DO think that there should be a TS in Every show... for it is a SHOCKING type of performance when its not the whole show... and I dont know her beauty comment but I personally Like her.
Hey Misty. Love you and all your vids!!!! Do you know who Axel Andrews is? He's totally amazing, but I'm a little confused...does he do some kind of boy drag. What would you call that type of performance art?
HE is a Performance Artist.. and I think more of a CLUB KID than Female Impersonator but still an Entertainer none the less...
in addition to your duct tape video, any more tips on cleavage?
Make sure your skin is FREE OF OILS, Lotions, conditioner etc..... and the tape will stick better :)
Sunday, September 4, 2011
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now and there is a strong connection between us. I just got accepted to a private college and he will be going to the university closest to us. I can't decide whether to pick him or education.
Honey this was a VERY EASY question for me to answer :)
Check it out :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MCgU0U34raI
i moved area i WAS popular but my old friends act like they dont know me anymore the trouble is im a new tranny and i find it hard to leave the house to meet new friends as a woman what do i do :'(
HONEY.... when you transition you have to start over.... YOUR BECOMING A NEW FLOWER... or better a BUTTERFLY... and you may still love your caterpillar friends but as you blossom they probably dont want to hang around you anymore
YOU CANT JUDGE THEM... they just dont understand... you are a NEW PERSON... and IN TIME You will become that BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLY and you will be popular again and many of your old friends will start to come around again once they have delt with their own issues about if they are comfortable with your change or not etc....
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH.. .and MAKE NEW FRIENDS.... join a support group start going to the drag shows and make GIRLFRIENDS.... and a LOT of the "GUYS that like GIRLS" hang at the shows too so you could meet someone special :)
Saturday, September 3, 2011
I'm a relatively new queen and I can't seem to find a heel that doesn't kill my feet and calves after fifteen minutes. I've tried lower heels and that seems to help the calves, is there a such thing as a comfortable heel?
AS a General RULE.... NO THERE IS NO SUCH THING.... but once you do find a pair you LIKE... BUY SEVERAL!!!! or remember the brand and CLING TO IT :)
here is a VLOG for a few other thoughts xoxo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbdU5KUK-gQ
Whats you favorite type of pasta?
Chicken Tequila fettucini (California Pizza Kitchen)
Farfalle Al Sugo Bianco (Macaroni Grill)
Spicy Chicken Chipolte Pasta at Cheesecake Factory
:) :)
I usually Like a SPICY SAUSE.. and my fave noodle is Farfalle or Bow Tie
What type of pizza do you like?
MEAT LOVERS or with EVERYTHING ON IT...... and I like the one with the cheesey stuffed crust (otherwise I dont eat it LOL)
Friday, September 2, 2011
Hi Misty! I am a 16 year old queen out of Arkansas (depressing I know, haha) I was wanting to know the right age in which you should start performing as a Drag Queen.. and if there is a certain age you have to be to start performing... Thanks!
There are a LOT of Variables in this Answer.... http://youtu.be/Yz1x0bSgEBk
We all know that we live in a youth oriented society. Why is it that younger folks shun us older folks?
DUH!!! BECAUSE KIDS KNOW IT ALL!!!! and then the more mature we get the more we realize that we have YET TO LEARN... HOPEFULLY buy the time you have to pick the brain of an elder - its not too late
Dear Misty, what does a normal day consist of for you?
I wake up... Turn my phone off Silent... look who called.... get up come into the living room check my fanpage www.facebook.com/imamistyeyezfan and then I check my GOOGLE+ http://www.gplus.to/mistyeyez
and then I plan what I am going to do that night... IF I need to style a wig etc.... then I go to work.... when I come home... I sometimes Record ask misty's and then check my facebook /google plus as I edit them