i have a friend who's been in a 6 year sexless relationship with an alcoholic. My friend has expressed to me that he is very unhappy, wants to leave but doesn't feel he can cuz his boyfriend is so dependant on him. How do I help my friend??

-- Surprisingly SOME PEOPLE are not happy unless they are MISERABLE... BUT if he REALLY does want out... I would say GET OUT.... I let my ex stay in my place for Four Months after we broke up... but once the lease was up.. it was time for him to get out...and I had to help him... for some people are just not capable of caring for themselves and need help. but you need to realize you are his Boyfriend not his mother..... but you might need to help him get on his own but once he is... then you need to stay firm in that your alone, and so is he.

ALSO What about REHAB.. and while he is in rehab move his stuff out to his own place?

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