Lost Young Boy

Dear Misty.

I just came out of the closet this year -- not that everyone didn't already know. I graduated High School '08 and Im not old enough to get into the clubs yet. I dont have any friends and my family thinks I'm a freak. I hate myself and dont know what to do. I tried to meet some guys online but they only want one night stands, and then they never want to talk to me again. Is there hope for me and how do I meet people for friendship.

~Lonely and confused.

Dear Lonely.

I am so glad you wrote me this letter. This is something near and dear to my heart, not to mention I have walked many MILES in your shoes. When you are young, and your world is changing all around you life can be very complex and scary. Don't Loose Hope there are Many places where you can meet people your own age and make real friends etc. I dont know where you live but in Fort Lauderdale I'm involved with the M Project (www.mproject954.com) Its a place where Men Mpower Men. Its a safe place for guys 18-30 to come hang out and talk about anything that is on their heart or minds. They have Game nights, Movie Nights, and its really fun. I think anywhere you put gay men in one place it becomes a little cruisey, but this place is not all about hook-ups. I have created many REAL friends there. If you are not in Fort Lauderdale contact your GLCC (Gay and Lesbian Community Center) and ask if they have a youth group. But most importantly don't loose hope, life is full of growing pains and I know it seems tough right now, but you will pull through and make it to the other side a winner.